01.   Never put yourself last
02.   When you extend a helping hand to one person, be careful not to kick someone else in the teeth
03.   Always own a pair of old, faded jeans
04.   Count your blessings every day
05.   Acknowledge your successes along with your downfalls
06.   Burn the candle that has been in storage for the last two years
07.   Strive for progress, not perfection
08.   Remember,the voice telling you that you cannot do something is always lying
09.   At least once a day sit and do nothing
10.   Do not close your heart so tightly against life's pain that you shut out life`s blessings
11.   Celebrate all your birthdays no matter how old you get
12.   Examine your life for limitations and ask yourself why you put them there
13.   Plant a tree, pull weeds, or get your hands dirty
14.   Diminish your wants instead of increasing your needs
15.   Cry when you feel like it
16.   Rejoice in other people's triumphs
17.   Don't wait for someone else to laugh or express joy
18.   Forgive yourself for any mistake you make, no matter how big or small
19.   Keep good company
20.   Look in the eyes of the ones you love when you are talking to them
21.   Remember that one is a whole number
22.   Walk in a summer rain shower without an umbrella
23.   Do a kind deed for someone else
24.   Keep your eyes and ears open to get the messages you need from people and events in your daily life
25.   Be patient
26.   Eat something green
27.   Walk hand and hand with truth
28.   Make laughter and joy a greater part of your life than anger and grief
29.   Embrace solitude instead of running from it
30.   Be zealous, not jealous
31.   Forgive anyone you've been holding a grudge against
32.   Slow down and enjoy the present
33.   Walk in others'shoes before judging them
34.   Don't let other people's opinions shape who you are
35.   Say a prayer
36.   Never attribute your accomplishments to luck or chance
37.   Know when to say no
38.   Look at the positive side of negative situation
39.   Avoid seeking out other people for constant approval, because it makes them the master and you the slave
40.   Go fly a kite
41.   Accept the things you cannot change
42.   Look inside instead of outside yourself for answers to life's problem
43.   Shield yourself from bad influences
44.   Stand up for what you believe in
45.   Respect the wishes of others when they say no
46.   Seize every moment and live it fully
47.   Give away or sell anything you haven't used in the past five years
48.   Never downgrade yourself
49.   Take responsibility for what you think, feel, and do
50.   Pamper yourself
51.   Never say or do anything abusive to a child
52.   Refrain from overindulging in food, drink, and work
53.   Finish unfinished business
54.   Be spontaneous
55.   Think of yourself as a survivor, not a victim
56.   Cuddle an animal
57.   Be open to life
58.   See success as something you already have, not something you must attain
59.   Change your attitude and your whole life will change
60.   Never turn your power over to another person
61.   When your heart is at odds with your head, follow your heart
62.   Always remember that the past is gone forever and the future never comes
63.   Live your life according to what is right for you
64.   Acknowledge your imperfections
65.   Plant a tree and watch it grow
66.   See "friend" instead of "enemy" on the face of strangers
67.   Believe in something bigger than yourself
68.   Let the playful child within you come out
69.   Make haste slowly
70.   Accept compliments from others so you can see the truth about yourself
71.   Sit on the lawn without worrying about grass stains
72.   Don't condemn yourself for your imperfections
73.   Do a humility check periodically by loving the truth about yourself
74.   Tell someone you appreciate them
75.   Never live your life according to what is right for someone else
76.   Talk less and listen more
77.   Admit your wrongdoing and forgive yourself for it
78.   Affirm all the good things about yourself
79.   Remember that all the feelings are OK
80.   Experience the splendor and awe of a sunset

 暧昧的过程就像躲猫猫

小心地掩藏心中的感觉

害怕坦诚面对自己

也生怕对方揭穿自己的心情而破坏这份暧昧

 

恋爱的过程更像躲猫猫

小心地控制爱恋的尺度

害怕对方发现自己爱得更深

自以为爱得少一些就会是赢家

 

躲猫猫时绝不能暴露自己

一旦被发现便注定是一场败局

在爱情中若藏得太妥贴

则注定独守寂寞

躲猫猫时会为自己的隐秘而骄傲

在爱情中却会为了对方的迟钝而沮丧

 

爱情躲猫猫是个危险的游戏

藏得越严实陷得越痛苦

最后不知在躲对方还是自己

一旦走火入魔

难逃曲终人散

 

对爱坦诚并非是与生俱来的能力

爱就爱了 越直白越快乐

爱情躲猫猫的玩家

永远希望对方能找到自己
 

 

春风卷不出落叶

 

告别嗜睡的季节

 

拒绝梦到秋天